HAPPY People, how do you do?
Another quick and impromptu post…
I just thought to myself…MAN, when it was dark, I couldn’t even see a speck of light at the end. Everything seemed a complete and utter shit mess. I’m pretty sure I can attest to everyone in their late-twenties and beyond, that at some point by now, you have probably seen or someone has shown you your ass at lease ONCE! heheh 😀 😀 But hey, we can all laugh about it now right? If not, soon you will. I PROMISE YOU. That is really the message I want to drive through, that it gets BETTER! Everything gets better!
Personally, I have met the most disloyal, rude, wack, heartless maaafakas yo who left me with my mouth wide open with disbelief! On some, HOLD UP…
“People like this actually exist?!?!?”
Well, they do! Shitty times and shitty people exist. AND on the same note, awesome times and awesome people also exist! Whatever it is you may be going through right now, any form of heartache, it will pass. Only until it was all over, was when I realized that there really is no better healer than TIME. Life continues to happen, your goals return, your thoughts return, YOU LEARN but YOU ‘FORGET’ – and you not only reach the end of the tunnel, but you actually come out a renewed person with many lessons learned and a mind stronger than ever before.
If you’re currently in the dark you may be thinking, pfffft what lessons?!? Well, they may be,
- How to grieve
- How to rise again
- How and which situations to avoid
- Who to avoid and/or
- How to forgive & forget.
I can’t give you the answers to these, only you and time will reveal the lessons. Be patient with yourself, allow yourself to heal in the most comfortable way you seem to gravitate towards (as long as it’s a way that is not hurtful to you or others). Be sure to remind yourself that there is way more positive that will result from this time. Realize that you are not alone and that everyone else goes through some form of difficulty at some point. Do not even dwell on the “Why Me?”s, the only reasoning you should focus on is that “It’s to make me stronger even though I do not see how at the moment”. Do not obsess over the lessons, they beautifully reveal themselves when you least expect it.
I don’t want to make this long. It just dawned on me today that “Damn, I didn’t even think I’d be this happy today”…and thought, someone in a shitty moment oughta know that there is light at the end of the tunnel.
Stay smiling good people!
Remember, the only person in charge of your happiness, is YOU!