How to moisturize Natural Hair & Get ready for Styling

HAPPY People, how do you do?

The best hair product that will make all your moisture issues disappear immediately is….NOTHING!

Hahah… ๐Ÿ˜€ I joke, I joke, c’mon lighten up! On a serious note, this is a guide for moisturising and preparing your natural hair for styling. Although I’m a ‘4 type’ chika, I’m almost guaranteed it will help to keep any curly girl/guy’s hair healthy in some way ๐Ÿ™‚

(Retaining) Moisture

The most important factor to consider about natural hair in the 4 category (and beyond) is its tendency to not retain moisture well. When uncared for it becomesย very dry and brittle and as we all know ladies and gents, that does not encourage hair growth that I know very well you are all obsessing over :D. So,

  • Your number one moisturiser is….drum roll….! WATER! I mean, the way our hair reverts back to its natural beautifully coiled state when wet says something doesn’t it? This is not to say you should wash everyday, the amount of times you wash your hair depends on your hair and your lifestyle. Although the rule of thumb I’d say is once every 1.5 weeks.
    • From there on, factors such as hair porosity, hair length and whether you have an active lifestyle will determine how often you wash your hair. Wash frequency routine is all about patience, attention and seeing what works best forย you. Check here for the best wash day routine.
  • Conditioner

You’ve got to condition your hair every wash day. It doesn’t have to be a deep condition, unless your washes are far apart which calls for a deep condition every time. I’ve noticed that it also helps using a leave in conditioner after your wash. Since I’m not finicky with using a different product for eeeeeevry single step in my routine…A leave-in to me is simply not completely striping out conditioner out of my hair when I wash it out. I leave a little of it on my hair, and I find it adds to myย moisture levels…

A sealant:

Oils and butters seal in the water – naturalistas call themย sealants. They lock in the hydration that you give your hair.

  • Coconut oil

A great moisturizer and sealant. This is my absolute go to. It moisturizes my hair very well and has amazing benefits that prevent and treat hair damage. After washing out my conditioner, while hair is still drenched in water, I add some coconut oil to it and run lukewarm/cool water over it to finish off, then wrapping it in a towel.ย Read here why cool water is important.

  • Olive oil

Olive oil is another top oil for natural hair (and scalp). I like it because it’s light so I can use it together with coconut oil. It’s really good for the scalp helping it stay moisturized and combat dandruff. The Vitamin E in it, I’ve read is good for hair growth. I use it by adding it to my spritz when detangling, or making a half coconut oil, half EVOO moisturizer when completing my styles.

Aloe Vera Juice Natural Hair
Aloe Vera Juice
  • Aloe Vera Gel/Juice

I recently began using Aloe vera because I needed to add some moisture and softness to my hair this winter (it’s winter in South Africa at the moment). I just learned that it’s a humectant (reduces moisture loss), so I decided to give it a go. So far so good. I think ย I need to use it longer to really know it is indeed what is making a difference. In any case it’s said to also promote hair shine, sooth an irritated scalp and promote hair growth. I use it every wash day. About 2 spoons to my detangling mix. I’ve alsoย added some to my deep conditioner. South Africans, you can find it in the natural foods isle at Dischem.

  • Sulphates in hair products

As mentioned in my last post, beware of the product ingredients and avoid sulphates by all means. They are basically ‘detergents’ that strip moisture from your hair. Don’t obsess over them, besides, I’m seeing a lot of products now that are making it clear on the label that there are no sulphates, parabens etc.


  • Hold

A lot of people use fancy twist, hold, lock gels and creams but maybe I haven’t found the magic one yet. I’ve tried some and won’t mention them because I’m not yet convinced. I get the best hold and definition with less product and more oils. In fact, some of my best twist outs and curl-rod outs have been a product of water and coconut oil only. Well, and technique, which will be my next post.

  • Manage hair in sections

Apart from ease of handling and reducing tangles. The benefit is that all your strands will be equally moisturized. Seems like common sense, but ey, I’ve seen things okay ๐Ÿ˜€

  • Spritz

I hardly spritz during my styles. For those who can pull off wash and go’s, a water-based spritz is a great idea because well, water is the best moisturizer. Mixing your spritz with good oils and giving it a refresher during the day or whenever needed is always good.

For those who like to stretch out their hair with twist outs and rods like me, ย when you find your hair dry during the style, you’ll want to retwist or restyle every night or every other night. This is your chance to use your water and oil based spritz before you retwist.

Apple Cider Vinegar Natural Hair South Africa
Apple Cider Vinegar
  • Apple Cider Vinegar

ACV is great for scalp and hair health. I started using it recently because of my increased workout lifestyle – I workout about 4-5 times a week. I could feel my scalp slightly itchy from sweat, so in order to make sure it’s properly cleansed I’ve opted for this method. I must say, it’s working! I add about a teaspoon to my shampoo or co-wash. I also love the shine it gives hair. You can also find it at Dischem.

  • Satin or Silk scarf

Last but not least, it’s best to wear a satin or silk scarf/bonnet to bed. Or if you’re not into that look lol, go for a pillowcase made with these materials. Cotton is a no-no because on top of the tangling and breakage factor, cotton absorbs the moisturizers/oils in your hair leaving it dry.

….AND those are my simple (I HOPE) go to’s and no go’s to achieve moisture retention and get ready for styling ๐Ÿ™‚

I believe my next natural hair post I will be showing you myย twist and curl rod technique, what allows me to get these super beaut curls out of my 4DDDDD natural hair! As always, leave a comment/question below (always happy to discuss) and your email in the subscription box so you don’t miss the next post ๐Ÿ™‚

Your Girl,


Moisture and Style 4c Hair TooAndALee





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  1. naturalkinks1on1 August 4, 2016 — 3:06 am

    I like your hair

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  2. Hi Thuli, am not sure which category my hair falls on, but it’s almost like yours. I’ve been natural since last year June and only started using the coconut oil this year. My hair is always dry and I have a very itchy scalp and a very bad hairline. It’s coming back but it’s taking it’s time. Please help. I’ll inbox you the products I have now and my recent pic. I seriously need your help.

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    • Hey Fikile ๐Ÿ™‚ Thanks for dropping by and leaving the question. I’ll keep a look out for your email and see how I can help. Please note that as your natural sista I’ll be advising based on my personal experience, if we find ourselves both puzzled we may have to refer to an expert. Otherwise I think the products you’re using and your hair routine will tell us a lot – looking forward to hearing from you. Best, TooAndALee ๐Ÿ™‚


  3. I really like your hair! & these tips sounds great ๐Ÿ™‚

    <3: Jasmin N

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  4. wow thanks for the advice keep on posting โค

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  5. Cocoa Nguni Child August 5, 2016 — 6:02 am

    Hi Thuli,

    Your curls look semi-permanent, excuse my assumption, I’m just seeing you rocking them quite a lot. How did you get them to curl like that, and if I’d want them to stay for longer, what would I have to use?

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    • Hey Girl!!! Thanks for dropping by! The big curls you see in my hair are stretching technique, where one uses curl-rods or perm-rods – find them at your local beauty store. It’s one of the best techniques to stretch and style natural hair and you’ll soon start seeing it a lot in the natural hair community. It’s been around for decades though. In my next post on hair, I plan on going into more detail on how I achieve the look. xoxo


  6. Your hair is beautiful

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  7. I really enjoyed reading this!! And u look great Hun!

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  8. I love your blog. Great read I just started my blog too, pop in sometime. Looking forward to your next post.

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  9. Hello. I found you on ig and felt that we may have the same hair type. I read this article and I see that you said you’re not convinced about some of the hold, twist and lock gels that you’ve tried. I personally have not found any of the big name brands to work for me either. However I thought I suggest trying marcel wax (the red wax) and mousse together. Hopefully they have that wax wherever you live. Out of all the name brand products I used that others say hold and define their curls, those two things together have made my rod set last for 3 weeks without recurling. I have a picture up on my page somewhere down my timeline on ig if you’d like to see my results. Don’t worry I’m not trying to score you as a follower. ๐Ÿ™‚ I’m just a natural hair lady looking for inspiration and sharing some of what I’ve learned in the process when I can. Hopefully it works for you like it does for me. I’ll be following you on ig. Thanks! ๐Ÿ™‚

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    • Hey Bianca!!! Thank you so much for dropping by! Marcel Wax sounds very familiar, I’m going to google it just now. Thanks for letting me know about it. For now, I think I’ll still stick to what’s been working, although 3 weeks sounds aaaaaaamazeballs!! Girrrl! That is goals right there! heheh What’s your IG handle love?


  10. Thanks for the tips. I cannot wait for the curling rids tutorial.


  11. Love your hair sisi… and I am taking notes. Thank you for the tips.


  12. You look great and im learning dear…keep it up๐Ÿ˜˜

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  13. Your hair is beautiful…

    Liked by 1 person

  14. Hahaha you know i just happened to click on this posts you made and answered my own question from what i left on your other post. lol

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